Lesson 4: Be Curious
I am not good at socialising. I am not a convo starter, nor am I the one who keeps them alive. I have been complained about many times by people for this poor skill I have. It is a fundamental life skill to survive, yet I am struggling 90% of the time to do it. Due to current circumstances that force me to survive at any cost, I began to observe people on how they befriend others. I need that to survive. I initially thought only those with attractive looks would get friends, lol—unfortunately, I don’t have that. However, after months of observing, I realised that beauty is not what makes the convo last; it’s curiosity. And it's also something that makes the convo start in several circumstances, don’t you think? Even for attractive people, we begin the conversation because we are curious about them. As simple as how was your day? Or how are you? Or even the most basic one, what’s your name? That’s how a conversation begins. And staying curious will make it last even longer. What a...
